LOVE is one of the questions we have always attempted to answer in more than one way. This only shows that it is quite impossible to grasp & comprehend the totality of its being. But we try, don't we? 

We try & find out by getting hurt... We try & find out anyway though we barely know that there is no chance @ all. 

        When you enter a relationship, when you commit yourself, you must always bear in mind that you are also sharing a part of yourself to a stranger, who by mere chance or destined fate, you happened to like & love. 

        In doing so, you take a risk- a great RISK! He is a different person. He is definitely not your reincarnation. This is why you should not expect him to be like you, to possess the same thoughts, to own the same emotions. You love him because he is he & not because he is you. You must learn to accept him in his totality as a person. Growth is brought about by your indifference's or differences which is one or another cultivate your relationship.        

        It is also important to remember that Trust is a vital element of any relationship. UNCONDITIONAL TRUST... no if's, no but's. When you love, honestly love, then you must be willing to sacrifice. There are times when hurts go so deep, when the pain is almost unbearable. When you are about to give up so easily. It is being there when all have gone, when there is little strength left. When it is too much to stand. Loving is trusting... Loving is letting be...

        There is really no difference between as-a-matter-of-fact way & a romantic way. You might just be in a different plane of understanding which maybe a cause of misinterpretation. If he says he is honest with you then don't kill yourself by saying he is not! How do you know? His past experience are not enough to doubt him. If he can offer his as-the-matter-of-fact way of loving the best, then accept it. And if you can love him in a romantic way in return, then do so... Don't measure the exchange. Just be honest with each other & have an open channel of communication constantly where there is a free sharing of ideas. 

         Nobody promised you a rose garden, but you are a promise. 

         Get the best out of life:

LOVE & get hurt. Get HURT & learn. LEARN & Love all over again. It is all a cycle my friend. It is a cycle of being. 

         So I challenge you, all... Experience the cycle!